
This is a Guest post by Jill Konrath of Selling To Big Companies.
The road to sales success is sprinkled with gone opportunities, awkward moments and foolish mistakes. For me, the chief difference between superb sellers and regular ones is their ability to turn these tragedies into wonderful opportunities.
As excruciating as it might be, excellent salespeople re-examine their errors to determine how they can prevent the same results in the future. Wounded but not defeated, they slowly discover what it requires to be successful.
I can relate because I have been there. I’ve had my own share of screw ups. And just the other day, some of my major mistakes came rushing back to me as I was off to conduct a training program for a local printing company.
When I exited the highway onto Como Avenue, I was instantly brought back to my days as a Xerox sales trainee when I was covering the 55414 zip code. It’s where I learned a lot of very useful lessons that are still inculcated in my mind today.
Lesson 1: How to Get Unstuck
When I finished my Xerox training program, I was assigned to follow Jim Farrell for numerous weeks to learn a lot of things. Then the day came when I was on my own.
I arrived at the office of Quality Products where I first worked. For some reason, I couldn’t get out of the car. I was frightened and thought that my sales career was done before it began.
After half an hour of being paralyzed in my car, a song from the movie, Sound of Music, popped into my head: “I have confidence.”
I began singing to myself, silently in the beginning, then louder and louder. I was mainly captivated with the refrain, “I have confidence in confidence alone, and as you can see, I have confidence in me.”
I didn’t really believe the words but they lifted me from my “stuckness.” I opened my cold call plan and practiced my opening statements again and again.
I then got out of the car and went inside the office. At the end of the day, I made 20 cold calls and found a couple of potential clients.
Over the years, I’ve encountered a lot of difficult situations that were hard to manage because I didn’t have enough knowledge and was inexperienced. I realized that it is impossible to know everything before you start. I also learned that in order to find answers, one should move and not be stagnant.
Lesson 2: How to Get to Higher Level Decision Makers
Trussbilt was one of the prospects I came across with while cold-calling. The company has been gone for a couple of years. It was replaced by the printing company where I was doing the training. The déjà vu that I felt when I went inside their offices was obvious.
At that time, I was working with a very expressive woman named Tinsey, who told me that she was the one in charge of the copier decision. Right after our meeting, I read a book that said that salespeople should work only with the top dogs and not their underlings.
My contact was an administrative assistant. I realized I had to remedy the situation at once. I got Mr. Big on the phone and set up a time to meet. Then I prepared well to make sure that I did a wonderful job.
Sadly, I never had the opportunity to take advantage of this opening. Tinsey came to the lobby to accompany her boss’s guest to his office. When she saw me, she demanded to know why I was there.
I told her “I’m here to see Mr. Big.” I was not confident if the approach I had taken was correct. Tinsey then yelled at me like I have never been yelled at before.
I was shocked, scared and became light-headed. I then fainted in the middle of the lobby.
I never did business with Tinsey or Trussbilt. But I did learn that when you are working with someone, it’s never proper to go around them without them knowing. They will get angry. It’s a normal human reaction.
Today, to make sure that I get to work with whomever I want in an account, I always tell this to potential clients: “When I’m working with clients, I need to talk with the VP of Sales, Regional Sales or Marketing Directors.” This avoids problems that can spoil your sales efforts.
Lesson 3: How to Cut the Crap and Net it Out
The Kaplan Company was just down the street and around the corner from Trussbilt. When I walked inside, there were about 30 seats filled with women who were preoccupied with order entry and handling customer service issues.
I informed the Front Desk Personnel that I wanted to talk to the person who made copier decisions. After checking with the boss, she accompanied me into his office. He told me to sit down and said that I had 5 minutes to talk.
“If you’re busy, I’ll go.” I said, trying to be courteous.
He said, “Nope. You have 5 minutes to tell me why I should buy your product. Your 5 minutes starts now.”
I mumbled, trying really hard to engage him. I told him that I needed more time to explain but he wasn’t interested. After 5 minutes, he stood up and told me, “Your time is up. You may leave now.”
That annoyed me. I told him he was impolite and obnoxious. Then I stormed out of his office and shouted, “I’ll never sell you a Xerox machine. You don’t deserve to do business with Xerox.”
I know it’s is difficult to imagine, but I really did lose my patience. And I’m pretty sure he never wanted to work with Xerox again. But he had a point. I couldn’t state clearly and concisely why he should hear me out.
I wanted to establish a connection and warm up the call. That made me feel better. He was a preoccupied person who chose his time judiciously. I didn’t respect his needs. After that cold-calling tragedy, I learned to net it out. That lesson is even more important today than it was years ago.
The School of Hard Knocks can be very cruel. If you’re making sales calls, you know how difficult it can be. Every time you’re knocked down, you have to make a choice about how to respond. Are you getting up again? Will you learn from the experience?
The most difficult thing in the world is to look at your own involvement in the situation, yet that’s where the maximum growth is for you and ultimately, the key to your long-term sales success.
Jill Konrath, author of Selling to Big Companies, helps sellers crack into corporate accounts, shorten sales cycles and win big contracts. She’s a frequent speaker at annual sales meetings, kick-off events and professional conferences. For timely and provocative sales advice, visit www.SellingtoBigCompanies.com.